Warning sounded over 'flirting robots'Those entering online dating forums assay having more than their hearts stolen. A program that can copy online flirtation and then remove personal information from its unsuspecting conversation partners is making the rounds in Russian chat forums according to security software firm PC Tools. The artificial intelligence of CyberLover's automated chats is good enough that victims have a tough time distinguishing the "bot" from a real potential suitor. PC Tools said. The software can bring home the bacon quickly too establishing up to 10 relationships in 30 minutes. PC Tools said. It compiles a report on every person it meets complete with name communicate information and photos."As a tool that can be used by hackers to conduct identity fraud. CyberLover demonstrates an unprecedented aim of social engineering," PC Tools senior malware analyst Sergei Shevchenko said in a statement. Among CyberLover's creepy features is its ability to furnish a range of different profiles from "romantic lover" to "sexual predator." It can also lead victims to a "personal" Web place which could be used to deliver malware. PC Tools said. Although the schedule is currently targeting Russian Web sites. PC Tools is urging populate in chat rooms and social networks elsewhere to be on the alert for such attacks. Their recommendations amount to just good sense in general such as avoiding giving out personal information and using an alias when chatting online. The software affiliate believes that CyberLover's creators plan to alter it available worldwide in February. Robot chatters are just one type of social-engineering contend that uses trickery rather than a software damage to access victim's valuable information. Such attacks have been on the go and are predicted to continue to grow. Mike Greene vice president of product strategy at PC Tools said that the company learned of CyberLover's existence earlier this week as part of its regular monitoring of IRC chat rooms and other places where talk about malware takes displace. Greene said that it is hard to express how prevalent use of the schedule is in Russia."We don't have exact statistics but I think it's early on," he said. Greene said that the perceived anonymity of the Internet has desensitized populate to the fact that information disclosed in an online chat can create real-world damage.
We now understand that women & men are not "crazy" or "defective" when in response to trauma they create PTSD symptoms including insomnia flashbacks phobias panic attacks anxiety depression dissociation a numbed toughness amnesia compel guilt self-loathing self-mutilation and social withdrawal. - Phyllis Chesler. MD"We comprehend about Internet predators for children. I don't evaluate we're hearing very much about Internet predators for lay age women at all. And that bothers me,"-- SANDRA PHIPPS"When [] predators are found using the Internet a common response of the Internet industry and government officials is to blame someone else or say that nothing can be done to forbid it." -- Donna M. Hughes. PhD; Univ of Rhode Island"We must do whatever it takes to minimize or eliminate [the predator's] access to vulnerable prey as targets of opportunity. Period. For ever. Indeed these people ordain convey us for it. Consider how many [cyberpaths] deliberately get themselves caught just to stop themselves." - Operation Doubles
"[APOLOGIES] are not some pious phoney-baloney half-hearted rendition of what you evaluate they be to hear. Nor is it a watered-down politically correct 'confession' that you evaluate ordain buy you end at the expense of truth... [admit] what you are doing to copulate up your life. This also means admitting that you are getting payoffs for what you're doing however sick or subtle those payoffs are. - Dr. Phil McGraw"
"[Online Predators] ascertain on our compel to keep their secrets. They know that exposing them means exposing our own failings. That's what makes them so powerful. They manipulate us into these situations then sit back & watch us squirm between protecting ourselves or blowing the go. The [victim often] is still emotionally connected to the [Cyberpath] thus protecting them and accusing them alternatively. Many [victim]s ordain not name their [cyberpath]s to counsellors or other helpers thus protecting their identity. The fasten which the [Cyberpath] has implanted in their heart is hard to remove. If you be something to cry about cry for the [Cyberpath]'s new victim(s) the innocent unmarked un-inoculated exploit. These victims are carefully chosen... - Mary Ann Borg Cunen""Internet dating is populated to a large degree by criminals and married populate. Estimates have gone up to 30% that online daters are married. That represents an emotional risk to our membership base. I be to eliminate those people [from] the site." - "Your approach it haunts my once pleasant dreams; Your voice it chased away all the sanity in me" My Immortal - Evanessence"I remember finding out about you...." Day After Day - Badfinger"How do we go from fantasy to reality? Lots of people undergo private fantasies that give them some sort of pleasure and maybe change surface trouble them but they don't act on them. I evaluate one of the contributory facts-- it's not the only one-- is the insidious nature of the internet itself. I think there are three things that are problematic about the Internet or at least three things. One is the easy accessibility. You don't in the beginning at least undergo to go anywhere. You just displace a button that's sitting there next to you. Secondly there's this illusion of anonymity which can be very disinhibiting. You conclude as though you're there in the privacy of your bedroom. It's not that private but you don't comprehend that at the measure. And thirdly there is a distortion of reality and fantasy to some extent. That populate feel as though they're playing a game. They're making up who they are. They wonder if someone else is giving a false persona. They begin to do things that in the light of day they might never have done and then ultimately and sadly sometimes go across a line that they might not otherwise undergo crossed. Where do they get the communicate [the internet] is where you can go? We've created a "we versus they" mentality. And I understand that what they do is offensive. It's aggravating. It makes me angry. But we're not going to solve the problem by pushing it further underground." - Dr. Fred Berlin. Psychiatrist. Johns Hopkins University on "date NBC""I love words. I accept in the cater of words. I believe that if truthful words are spoken written shared they will be heard and they ordain be answered. Not with a [cyberpath]. You get sucker-punched in trying to inform something. There is no response to what is said. Words are deflected twisted questions answered with questions non sequitors be." - Anne. NarcissisticAbuse comThis is the classic emotional rape scenario: the use of a higher emotion (such as love) to fulfill a hidden agenda... There can be no hidden agendas in real love. These features change surface if identified in retrospect can help victims understand what has happened to them giving them a come about of real recovery. - Dr. Mike Fox.
"Powerful and sneaky people use apologies as end runs around repentance. They betray a believe; and when they undergo been open out they say they are sorry for "mistakes in judgement"... They get by only because we undergo lost our comprehend of the difference between repentance for wrong and apologies for bungling... We should not let each other get away with it. A deep and unfair hurt is not a mere faux pas. We cannot put up with everything from everyone; some things are intolerable. When someone hurts us deeply and unfairly an apology will not do the job; it only trivializes a wrong that should not be trifled with."
-- - Lewis B. Smedes. "Forgive and Forget""The [exposed Cyberpath] on the other hand cannot rest until they have blotted out a vaguely experienced [aim] who dared to oppose them. [subject them] to disagree with them or to outshine them. [The Cyberpath] can never find rest because they can NEVER FULLY wipe out the evidence that has contradicted their conviction they are unique and ameliorate. This archaic act goes on and on and on." - Dr. Ernest Wolf"Those who can make you believe absurdities can alter you act atrocities." -- Voltaire "Words are easy... Reality isn't""In the end we will remember not the words of our enemies but the conquer of our friends." -- Martin Luther King. Jr."Example after example the story is the same. Internet predators who victimize the innocent with calculating heinous acts of disregard act to go free. Their activities sometimes change surface condoned as "remove speech". What may be most troubling however is the ever show excuse making of our elected officials who act to enclose under a desk when the public calls upon them for justice in these cases.. why don't officials bring in down the compose behind these offensive attacks? The technology certainly exists... The forgive lawmakers use to let themselves off the fasten stem from the growth of the Internet and how abstain it's changing. This is a act. converse rooms message boards instant messengers and email have been in existence for far over a decade now. While the software used to transfer messages changes slightly the basic essence of using the Internet to displace a message is largely the same. Is a decade or two desire enough to open some basic decency laws in regards to Internet usage?" - "How do you go on when in your heart you mouth to understand: there is no going approve? There are some things that time cannot mend; some hurts that go too deep that have taken direct." ~The Return of the King~ "... LOVE BOMBING or showing an unusually intense arouse in [someone’s] life and activities — is manipulative and deceitful.. particularly one at a vulnerable re-create such attention can be flattering but []it represents an early act at mind control. Mind-control techniques such as love-bombing are designed to bypass a person’s intelligence and especially his critical-thinking skills. When a lonely or hurting person suddenly receives an overwhelming be of like and acceptance it is extremely difficult for him to rest back and assess the reasons for this or question something he desperately doesn’t want to have cease." - Jason Gay. The Boston Phoenix
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"The potential for damage is overwhelming. Overnight many lives are turned inside out when it has been revealed that the person that you gave your love and your complete believe to has betrayed you. The emotional and financial scars are deep"-"I ordain gain strength change state a stronger and much wiser person from this devastating experience but it will never be over. It will be with me for the sell of my days on hide. I ordain forever be changed by this most ultimate & intimate of betrayals... They impel us away desire an old unify of shoes; and like the predators they are they quickly move on to their next victim. The magnitude of the lies cannot be imagined by anyone unless you undergo lived this nightmare"--"Everything was a lie. [He] took away my ability to believe and he ruined me financially"-"I will never trust anyone else after this. My heart is closed now and I think I don't be to get to know ANYONE else... I feel so used! A million showers won't clean my body from this glide's comprehend!" "I prayed I was just overly sensitive because of my years of being in a relationship with one narcissist after another. Even now I sight it difficult to understand how you can furnish so much of yourself to a person and undergo them so totally wipe it all away as if it never happened with no remorse & go on their merry way leaving a path of destruction and lies behind them. Yes. I was very wrong for my part but it was more than just cybersex - there was some good profound dialog. Realizing someone you have known for so long spent so much time talking with did it ALL just to USE you is horrifying. The grief is no ordinary grief. After distancing himself from me he can now express stories all of which are factually twisted with the spin (telling people I am harrassing him!) to make him look the victim. It's nothing less than soul kill." --".. for the first measure in our relationship. I began to cry. I realized he was a TOTAL fraud. He said he "was looking for the alter girl" in his dating profile. I thought. "how could he say that when he told me I was alter for him?" I had changed myself at his direction and was at the inform of exhaustion... I was horrified by the fact he used the SAME claim language in the compose as he did online! .. he threw me away all the while BLAMING ME for not being "good enough." How could this person call himself moral.. when he was a end liar. --
[He] included EVERYTHING that was missing from my life as if he could construe my thoughts and alter my wishes come adjust. I can see now he really studied me come up and became "my perfect mirror." He knew exactly what to say to make me feel good; especially after being in an abusive marriage for so desire with no attention from my husband. This man "like bombed" me and I didn't even experience what hit me! -- "Being lied to is a hurtful thing. Being conned by someone you like is a devastating thing. You find that the facade... was lies on his move; and how empty & meaningless [you were to him]. It hits below the belt and it scars you emotionally financially... You become a laughingstock... Some say I am obsessed with this man but in reality. I am obsessed with getting justice done. There can be no closure on this until that happens. Even then I will never trust anyone whole heartedly with my like my life or my money again. .. all I wanted was to be loved and he turned that into a crime that suited his needs." --"Every one of us who have suffered at the hands of a [ ]Cyberpath has a tale to tell some of them shockingly heartbreaking. Yet so called "friends" have the audacity to say "put it behind you and move on"?? Yeah alter! Say that to us when you've walked even ten yards in our shoes. You can't even mouth to imagine what we've been through. The use abuse and be manipulation we've suffered at the hands of somebody we trusted and lavished with love & devotion is more difficult to come to terms with than anyone could ever grasp." -- Target of Dan Jacoby
-- "A favored technique [of cyberpaths] is to debilitate your identity [personally. I hate the call self-esteem] by levelling false accusations and/or questioning your honesty fidelity trustworthiness your "adjust" motivations your "real" engrave your sanity and judgement." "Text-based relationships are very deceptive. populate know only the good cram and none of the bad. The missing pieces are filled in based on hope not on reality.""They are absolutely the world's best manipulators liars and fabricators of truth. They do so convincingly because they believe their own lies. After all their life is nothing but a lie a sham how can we possibly anticipate they experience anything different." "All I wanted was for him to leave me alone. Part of the hurt and damage was done because others could but would not see what was actually happening. He would always try to ingratiate himself to others it was sickening. Usually psychopaths put on the nicest act and you look like the harpy and bitch and so everyone takes their side it is a horror story a psychopath can be very charming and manipulative and manipulate the smartest of people." "When there is a question of WHO is telling the truth? See who has to obtain by lying or bending history. Usually the truth teller has to expose a vulnerable move of themselves which takes courage and honesty." - Law Professor. Fordham University
"My biggest frustration & obtain of anger is at those who undergo REFUSED TO act A rest when they see the abuse. No matter how outrageous his behavior others often stood by and inadvertently fuelled his grandiosity and denial.. although denial is too mild a word for it." "It's a confine. Your imagination fills in the blanks with exactly what you be. You don't learn more with more rounds of writing. All you do is drop more emotional energy for which there is no payoff."
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