As I had my morning coffee the “Dear Abby” column caught my eye. A reader wrote in with a dating dilemma and ended her earn with that often-heard assort that “Women use sex to get like and men use love to get sex. ” This is a great summation of the “Sex Trap. “For singles who fall into the Sex confine having sex carries immense meaning and consequences. Singles go into the Sex confine in one (or both) of two ways:A they believe sex is a necessary test of compatibility. (if the sex is good then the relationship ordain be good as well)B more commonly all consciousness goes out the window and one or both formerly level-headed singles believe themselves a committed couple as soon as they have sex. So rather than looking at whether this other person might be a be on levels other than physical attraction — such as long-term requirements needs and wants — they are blind-sided by the chemistry under the covers.
